Pano kung dalawa sila?


Miss ko na magsulat ng tagalog. Pero itong isusulat ko hindi para sa akin ( defensive agad ) para ito sa kaibigan ko na naguguluhan at humihingi ng payo dahil 'dalawa' daw ang kanyang mahal.

Ewan ko ba, ako ang lapitan ng mga kaibigan, kakilala pagdating sa pagbibigay ng payo. Kamukha ko ba si 'Ate Charo' ? Sabi nya, it seems like I know the right words to say ...shush may ganun? Nambola pa... Anyway, gusto ko syang batukan, di ko lang nagawa dahil nagmamadali ako nung kausap ko sya...

Sabi ko punta na lang sya sa blog ko at dun nya makikita ang makapag - damdaming payo ko sa kanya...( haba ng segway) hahaha!

Oh well, ganito lang yan...

No two things could occupy one space at the same time. Sabi nga sa science text book namin nung grade five.

Ampf, kakahanap ko nitong theory/principle/law na 'to, napadpad pa ko sa... Pauli Exclusion Principle. It states that no two identical fermions may occupy the same quantum state simultaneously. OHA OHA? Behold. Di ko naman gets. hahaha!

Hmmm... plus, you can't serve two masters. Putulin na natin dun sa masters, 'wag nang dugtungan pa ng at the same time. You just can't! Kasi mamaya, may schedules ka pang iimbentuhin.

If you got your heart confused, don't blame love. Blame yourself. I'm sure you got yourself confused with love and infatuation and attraction. Of course, you may feel love for both parties, but the amount of love you give? It's never the same. Alam na alam ko 'to, kakagaling ko lang sa ganitong sitwasyon. Well, the amount of love you get creates more confusion though.

There has to be one who wins the race.

For sure, you got yourself gratified by the idea that there are two great woman by your side, both ready to offer everything. It feels so damn good, you feel like you're the center of the universe. You just won't let go. But you are only one, and you're just not enough for two.

Are you so great? What do you have to offer them both that won't make them need more?
You're not God! Unless you're Agent Smith in the matrix.


So, come on, don't be selfish. Don't be greedy.

Hurting one is enough. Don't hurt them both by giving them both the feeling of anticipation. If you're gonna hurt them both, make sure it's because you shut the door right into their faces. A not so no-man-is-an-island decision to make though.


All you have to do is choose.

Just like when you choose a great meal from the menu. When you choose from ravishingly good desserts. Confusing, but you still end up choosing one for that particular meal. What's so common about choosing, though not all times, is that.. you choose what you want more and what's good for you. Whatever your reasons are for choosing what you ended up wanting, up to you, your life. Though it's advisable that you choose what you want and need and what's good for you. Stand by your decision and don't put yourself in the same state of confusion again, it defeats the purpose of choosing.


So again, choose.

14 have spoken:

Anonymous said...

halu toni!

pwede naman tayong magmahal ng marami. yun nga lang iba't -iba ng level at extent. like love for a friend, o sa family. pero kung romantic love ang paguusapan, hmmm... mukhang hindi yata ok yun. we have to choose talaga. may dapat i-keep at may dapat bitawan.

paperdoll said...

wow! ang galing mo ateng! bakit aco kamukha ni aye charo hindi naman marunong magpayo? lol

siguro nga may ganun. .
pero tingin co ung pagmamahal nya dun sa isa is practical lang ang reason. . ewan ha. . ganun kasi madalas co naririnig eh. .

at kung gusto nya talaga na dalawa ang mapasakanya. . ABA MAG MUSLIM SYA!

Unknown said...

mukang sanay si joshy sa ganyang sitwasyon ah! hahaha, haha, at kailangan bang kamuka ni ate charo kapag magpapayo? kamuka ni jolina pwede? payong kapatid.

hehehe

i made a similar post about this dati pa nung panahon pa ni mahoma, and as what i've learned after that e totoong we have to make a choice. Love is a decision in way, u have to decide whether you'll choose to be with him/her or not. ganun yun kasi kahit mahal mo minsan hindi nagiging kayo coz you DECIDED that it would be better kung hindi kayo magkasma .. am i ryt?

so in the end, kahit 2 ang mahal mo, minsan kasi "L" lang yung sa isa... la lang.. maishare ko lang.

hehehehehe

madjik said...

spoken like a true veteran ba? :p

galing naman mag advice...

gillboard said...

ang sabi nila pag nagmahal ka ng dalawa, dun ka na sa pangalawa.

kasi di ka naman magmamahal ng isa pa kung talagang mahal mo yung una.

tama ba?

Anonymous said...

i totally agree with joshmarie, may kanya kanyang level of extent ang pagmamahal sa kapwa.. sa gnyan, hindi pwede.. hmmm, inulit ko lang, anu ba yan..

"It states that no two identical fermions may occupy the same quantum state simultaneously" ---

nakakadugo ng utak! pero pwedeng sabihin, u are meant/created/destined to only one.
at hindi pwedeng dalawa ang mag-occupy ng iisang puso mo.

kung girl ang humihingi ng advice, sabi nila kasi, pag nagmahal ka daw, piliin mo kung sino yung taong mas mahal ka kesa sa mas mahal mo. in that case, mlabo daw kasing iwan o lokohin ka..ewan ba.

Abou said...

tikman mo muna silang dalawa, kung kanino ka mas enjoy e di dun ka

ha ha ha

yan e sa akin lang

Toni said...

@joshy
yeah sis pagdating di puwedeng dalawa kahit pa sabihing we have so much love to give dapat isa lang para walang nasasaktan...

@paperdoll
yeah posibleng di talaga love yung nararamdaman nya para dun sa isa...

mas maganda ka kay ate charo sis...hehehe

Toni said...

@turones
naks sure ka dyan ha? dapat isa lang ha?! hhmmm sige ...im watching u..nyahahaha!

@madjik
veteran ba? nah...tsamba lang...hehehe

Toni said...

@gillboard
yeah si bob ong ata ang may sabi nyan..pero I still dont get it..bakit kailangang magpaasa di ba?

Sana bago ka magmahal ng iba...be man enough na sabihin dun sa una para di maging dalawa...*sigh*

Toni said...

@dylan
ang sakin lang naman e kung talagang mahal mo ang isang tao, di ka gagawa ng ikakasakit ng kalooban nya di ba?

thanks sa pagdaan :)

Toni said...

@abou
tikman muna? tapos kung sinong mas masarap doon? puwede din..basta pipili pa rin ng isa sa huli...hahaha!

Roland said...

basta ako dalawa lang mahal ko sa buhay ko: si Lord, at sarili ko.

Toni said...

@roland
yeah we must love GOD above all else...and syempre dapat mahalin natin ang sarili natin.